So inconsistent...that's me!

So, about a month ago, I tried to do a blog post and it wouldn't work. My whole blog was jacked up and I could not get anything to work right. So, I just forgot about it...for a month :) But, I am back now.

We have had lots of exciting news. Baby #3 is a BOY! Phillip will have a brother to grow up with, play with, and most importantly, pass clothes down to (well, it's important to me)! Olivia is actually thrilled at staying the only princess in the family, and Mike and I are thrilled to raise another son! We have tentatively decided on the name Andrew Corwin, but that is subject to change...

We also found out last month that my brother and sister in law are expecting a baby! Their baby will be about three months younger than Andrew. Andrew is six months younger than my uncle and aunt's baby girl, Kaelyn. He is three months younger than my cousin and his wife's baby, Grant. Therefore, there will be many playmates in his future. This is such an exciting and new thing for me. I was the oldest (by five years) of all my cousins and poor Olivia didn't have a playmate until Phillip was born. Phillip has a cousin, Gracyn, that is a few months older than him and now will have a slew of kids a couple of years younger than him to boss around! Yay for family!!

Only twelve more weeks (approximately) until baby Andrew makes his appearance. I have A LOT to do!! I am anxious to see him, but honestly, I am fine with the next twelves weeks CREEPING by, as I don't want to feel rushed. We will see...

I have another blog post swirling around in my head, so I should be posting again soon! See you then!!

Swagbucks

One thing I forgot to tell you guys about is Swagbucks. I'm sure most of you have heard about them by now, but if not you are missing out on some FREE MONEY. Swagbucks is a search engine, just like Google. You just download the toolbar or go to Swagbucks.com and search there. Every few searches, you are awarded Swagbucks. You can redeem them for giftcards. Most everyone I know uses them for Amazon.com cards. It costs 450 Swagbucks to get a $5 giftcard. I have earned 92 swagbucks in the last 36 hours. Therefore, it's an easy way to get some free Amazon money. If you want to sign up, click on my ad on the left and I'll get some credit too :)

Snow Day, Snow Day

Well, it snowed here in the South! Snow days are a really big deal here, it pretty much shuts everything down. This was a mild snow day, as the roads were relatively clear and we got 4 ish inches where we live. The kids had a great time! Phillip HATED the snow last year, so I wasn't sure what to expect this year. He LOVED it! Olivia always loves the snow. Last year, she stayed out until she nearly got hypothermia. This year, both kids were chilled and ready to go in within an hour.

Here are some cute pictures. I plan on starting the fun giveaways tomorrow. I apologize for the delay, I have been very PREGNANT the last few days. Saturday, Sunday, and today I laid down with Phillip and took a 2+ hour nap. I am exhausted, but all for a good cause. I think it's half pregnancy and half chasing a toddler :)

Getting acclimated to the snow :)

Hmm...do I like it or not?

My goodness, she is getting so big! (And pretty too, if I say so myself)

Teaching her brother to make snowballs!

 Phillip insisted on going for a walk through the subdivision, Olivia followed him dutifully!

Olivia dropped to do a snow angel and Phillip though she fell down, he was concerned!

In which I blog my heart out...

First of all, before you read this post, watch this video. I know, I know, everyone posts Youtube videos all the time, but this one WILL change your life. It changed mine. My friend (and cousin) Becky posted this on her facebook page a while back and it moved me. I used it for the presentation I did at church to get people to sponsor our "Community Kids".

2010 is a year our lives really changed. We are a middle class family. We live comfortably. When we need to make a big purchase, we generally have to save up for it, but we definitely don't go without. We have coasted along through life very proud of ourselves. We both grew up in working class homes and we were very proud that our children would not have to experience the things we did. Now, I'm not saying that my childhood was hard. We had all of our needs met and a lot of our wants...but we knew that money was a limited commodity. Mike and I took the (mistaken) attitude that our child would never know what it was like to have family money problems. If things were ever tight, we certainly wouldn't let our kid(s) know. This was obviously a mistake that resulted in some spoiled, entitled children. We are trying to reverse that brainwashing and teach them to help others with less than them.

Background Story:

In 2000, we had our first child. In 2003, we began trying to have another child. We were diagnosed with fertility problems and spent several years and many thousands of dollars trying to have another child. In the summer of 2007, I told Mike I wanted to take a break. I was so tired of pills, thermometers, and the thought of the elusive BABY consuming every aspect of my life. Mike agreed and we resigned ourselves to being the parents of an only child. In the fall, I began exploring foster care. We had looked into private adoption before, but it was more than we wanted to spend. We talked about it and began filling out the paperwork to become foster parents. We were having a hard time getting our schedules together to do all the training, home visits, etc., so we decided to wait until the first of the year. I got pregnant with baby Phillip in December 2007.

So, we put our foster care plans on hold and prepared for our miracle baby. We have had the best "babymoon" period with him. He's a delightful child, a true miracle. Around his second birthday (September 2010), I began looking into foster care again. By then, the kids we work with at church had been pulling at my heartstrings and I wanted to do more to help kids like them. I didn't say anything to Mike yet, just prayed about it and looked into possibilities. This was in September, also the same month I became pregnant with #3. God has a sense of humor.

So, obviously, I've put that on hold AGAIN. I really feel like God is leading us to do something with foster kids, but since our biological children now outnumber available bedrooms, it may not be foster parenting.

So we are exploring our options as far as volunteering. (Everyone who knows me IRL just snickered, because I am over volunteered as it is). Anyway, these kids are just getting to us. The kids we have on Tuesday nights are such an interesting and sad mix of kids. We have a lot of kids, sometimes 50. About 30 of those kids are from the local housing project. Some have really good families that have just fallen on hard times. They have mamas who love them, daddies who provide for them, and a good sense of security. Most of them don't. Most of them live with a single parent, which is not that uncommon in any socioeconomic group, or necessarily a bad thing, assuming the one parent is a good parent. But, these kids are so neglected. Their clothes are dirty, their hair is unwashed. They have dirt under their nails and hollow looks in their eyes. Any love you are willing to give them, they soak up like a sponge. Mike and I go home every Tuesday night talking about them, praying for them, worrying about them.

One of the main things I worry about is if they have enough to eat. When we started our Tuesday program, we fed the kids a snack. They were SO HUNGRY. They would beg for more and steal food. We quickly switched to serving dinner, with all the refills they want. They clean their plates. I worry what they are eating the rest of the week.

I also worry about their safety. Back in September, we had a booth at our towns' Barbeque Festival. We sold candy and cotton candy and advertised the churches new name (http://www.ccchenderson.org/). Several of the kids came by the booth to say hello. They wound up spending the rest of the day with us. They were girls about Olivia's age and they had a great time together. I found out that they had walked there, about two miles, including crossing Hwy 45. It was dark when I found this out, so I told them to call their parents from my phone and see if I could drive them home when we were done. They called and the parents said okay. I bought them all dinner (they had not eaten all day, see why I worry) and they settled in under the quilts I had in the booth (they were severely underdressed). Well, about two hours later, one of the mothers shows up, screaming and making a scene. She is an obvious meth addict, no teeth, drawn face, crazy eyes, about 40 lbs underweight. She is shaking her daughters arm and screaming at her to GO HOME. She had forgotten she told her she could stay. I tried to defuse the situation as best I could, but I don't want to imagine what happened when she got home.

Anyway, God is really dealing with us to work with these kids, with other at risk kids. I think it is so easy to get caught up in the complancy of "good Christianity". To give to your local congregation, attend regularly, volunteer now and then, and call it a day. But Jesus wants more. He wants us to minister to "the least of these". I'm hoping 2011 is the year we will find out what we should be doing. And, I hope the next time I look into foster care, I don't get pregnant :)

Argg...

Well, I promise I didn't (mean to) lie about the giveaways! I have been recovering from bronchitis since before Christmas and just can't seem to shake the last bit of it. That's not that big a deal, I'm just a little snuffly and tired. But...Phillip seems to have come down with something similar. The last few days, he has alternated between being feverish, croupy, and stuffy. He has CLUNG to me like a spider monkey. This is the first time I have been able to sit down to the computer any longer than a few minutes. I called and made him a doctor's appointment for tomorrow and he immediately starting feeling better :) That figures, huh? I'll still take him in, just in case.

That being said, I will start the giveaways tomorrow. I have found several "large" things around the house (too large to ship economically) that I will be offering as local giveaways, as well as some smaller things that I will ship.

I hope that everyone is having a great new year. Thank you so much for all the visits and support of the blog so far! I have had over 300 hits since I started it, which makes me feel loved :)

Happy New Year!!

I rang in the New Year with the love of my life and some of my best friends! We were invited to a super fun party where we gorged ourselves on yummy food and played a fun version of the "Newlywed Game" where we had to answer questions about each other. For example, we had to recount when and where our first kiss was, the first time we cooked for each other, etc. Well, I am pleased to say that Mike and I scored 100%!! I love that man :) I have to say, I'm sure that our marriage is not perfect (whose is), but we do know each other very well! We're not blowing smoke when we say that we are each other's best friends. Last night was our 15th New Year's Eve together!

The kids spent the night with Mom & Dad last night, so I got to sleep in until 9:15! On top of that, I took a nap this afternoon when Mike got home from work. Apparently, I'm starting the new year LAZY! We celebrated Christmas with my dad's side of the family last night. There were about 25 people there, it was madness! It was good to see all of them, since I don't see them often. My dad's father spent the night with my parents last night, so the kids got to spend a little extra time with him (he lives 3 hours away). He and Phillip really bonded, it was cute.

I didn't take a single picture of either event last night, but I will post some when I steal them from my mother and friends. I am planning on starting the giveaways tomorrow, so make sure you stop by! Happy New Year!!

Baby Fever

I had my 18 week check up today! The baby's heartbeat was 160 and I have lost 20 lbs. Yay for the pregnancy diet! Now, for all you skinny minnies out there that gain weight when you're pregnant, there is nothing wrong with me. I just lose weight when I'm pregnant, then gain it all back when the baby is born. Go figure! It has to do with a disorder I have, but I won't go into all of that today.

The doctor wanted to wait two weeks instead of one to do the ultrasound. He said they could tell more things about the baby's heart at 20 weeks, so I'm cool with that. The anticipation of finally knowing what I'm having is starting to get to me! I cannot wait to know! I've been looking at old pictures of Phillip and Olivia when they were babies and I have major baby fever now.

All of Olivia's baby pictures were done on "real" film. We had a digital camera, but that was back when they were less than 1 megapixel, so the quality sucks. Phillip's are all digital however, so I thought it would be fun to put some of those on here. One of my favorite feelings in the world is the feeling you have when you first lay eyes on your child. It's a combination of recognition ("Oh, I know you, you're mine!") and overwhelming unconditional love. I didn't get to see Livi right after she was born, I was unconscious. But when I saw her, I was hooked! I got to see Phillip immediately. He sucked in some fluid, so he had to be deep suctioned, then they brought him right over, He opened his eyes for the first time and looked right into mine. I fell head over heels in love with that little redheaded boy! I can't wait to see this one!

I am going to cherish the next two weeks, the last two weeks of "the unknown". Then, as soon as I find out, I'm going to shop! Well, if it's a girl, I will. Boy stuff is boring and I have plenty of it. Here are a few pictures of cute baby Phillip.

WARNING: These will make you want to have another baby.

One week old

One week old with proud big sister

 Enjoying his first bath

In the hospital, looking for his mommy :)

Finally, I'm wondering how big this baby will be. Olivia was 21 1/2" long and 8 lbs 13.5 oz. She never lost weight and weighed 10 lbs 5 oz at her 2 week check up. Phillip was a little smaller, 7 lbs 13.5 oz and 20 inches long. He lost weight and at one week weighed 6 lbs 12 oz. He was a little over 3 weeks early, they estimate he would have weighed over 9 lbs if he was full term. I'm thinking #3 will be at least 9 lbs and 21 inches long, if I don't go early again. My kids are just big kids. Tall and skinny, that's the Bell kids. Wish that's how everyone described their mama :)